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+3PHANTAS-MOON Pockeh ~Noodle~ 7 posters | Author | Message |
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~Noodle~
Posts : 46 Join date : 2010-05-27
| Subject: Things I've noticed in the main chat. Sat Jul 02, 2011 1:05 am | |
| So, this is what i've noticed in the chat since I've been back. Too much sexual talk on there. Now I don't mind if its just mentioned once but this is on everytime I look at the chat. I've become quite annoyed with it. As not only as does it make me feel uncomfortable but it angers me to find that there's no respect for when a girl is online. I know a majority of the site is guys but, I would atleast like it and for the few girls on the site to keep that to a minimum. I won't point fingers at the people who do it but they have been told not once but twice about it. And it seems that my warnings have been heeded and have happened again. Anyways for the sake of keeping myself on this chat and my comfort levels up I have posted this in hopes it could be resolved. | |
| | | Pockeh Resident Smut Guru
Posts : 427 Join date : 2011-03-26 Age : 28 Location : On a horse... YAH!
| Subject: Re: Things I've noticed in the main chat. Sat Jul 02, 2011 1:08 am | |
| I'm going to go ahead and agree with Sakuya on this one. It's getting excessive. Also, there's some serious creepiness in there anyway. Joking or not, talking about any manner of rape, violation, or "soul eating" is downright disturbing in my opinion. If it's in character, fine, but if it becomes personal, things go over the line. | |
| | | PHANTAS-MOON SEELE 02
Posts : 369 Join date : 2011-03-26 Age : 30 Location : New Zealand
| Subject: Re: Things I've noticed in the main chat. Sat Jul 02, 2011 1:44 am | |
| I'll go ahead and say that I talk like this too, but not to excess. It would be good for member comfort if we did keep it down, though, and I'm not just talking Saku here. | |
| | | Ravana
Posts : 250 Join date : 2010-06-01 Age : 32
| Subject: Re: Things I've noticed in the main chat. Sat Jul 02, 2011 3:40 am | |
| You're whining over nothing. There's been no "increase", I'm exactly as I've always been. Also, 9 times out of ten, what I say isn't even directed towards a girl. You know that this is how we are like. Now sure, talking about rape is too far, but I know that personally, anything sexual that I talk about is in a consensual context. Also, if you wanna try and pull a gender card, Tia is just as perverted, if not more so, than I am in the main chat. | |
| | | Silim SEELE 01
Posts : 326 Join date : 2010-05-25 Age : 32 Location : Not here, but always there.
| Subject: Re: Things I've noticed in the main chat. Sat Jul 02, 2011 12:43 pm | |
| I can only talk about myself... and I act the same around everyone, female, male, in-between. xD If things get overly excessive, though... tell the people to stop. If they don't stop, try to PC an admin. If no admin is on... then tough luck, I gotta say. I'm strictly against set rules for the XAT, since we're supposed to be a group of friends, a 'family' of sorts, not an elitist group. Some rules wouldn't turn us that way, but it would be first step, so I generally say no to that.
For now, I have to play the mean admin once more: AS OF NOW, if someone asks to stop with the boner-jokes, at least dim it down. I would never expect ANYONE on here to stop with the innuendos and outright sexual jokes, but we don't need them 08/15. Don't joke about someones real life, unless they're as open about it as I am who doesn't care about it! Please now guys, we're friends. Keep it simple for me while I'm writing my exams at least?
Bottom line: Guys, be friendly to each other. We don't need shitstorms! | |
| | | Shirou Emiya SEELE 03
Posts : 270 Join date : 2010-05-26 Age : 31
| Subject: Re: Things I've noticed in the main chat. Mon Jul 04, 2011 1:26 pm | |
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| | | Ama Yariman
Posts : 135 Join date : 2011-03-26 Age : 43 Location : In your pants c:
| Subject: Re: Things I've noticed in the main chat. Thu Jul 07, 2011 12:26 pm | |
| Yes, there have been a few people who have been laying it on a bit thick. But what the hell Ravana. It's me, everyone knows I mean nothing, and I am certain Saku was not referring to me. I don't think anyway, seeing as she plays along occaisionally when I troll. HOWEVER, I know of a few who could tone down their creeper attitudes; not Rav, because I know he is playing, but others. So, please refrain from blaming me, when I mention personal things, I always tell you I am trolling afterward. You should expect it from me, you all know I am a somewhat good reverse trap :3
I love you guys! ^^ | |
| | | Ravana
Posts : 250 Join date : 2010-06-01 Age : 32
| Subject: Re: Things I've noticed in the main chat. Sat Jul 09, 2011 8:58 am | |
| Um, I was not blaming you Tia, I was bringing up the fact that you are a female who does not find jokes of this nature to be offensive, and that you are probably up there with me in telling a majority of said jokes. I was merely bringing you up to counterpoint the "there are females here" point by showing that not all females take offense. As for if and when it does become offensive, it actually would help to know just who does take it overboard, because being one of the people who makes those jokes a lot, I can only assume that I am somehow included in this reprimand. | |
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